An acquaintance’s recent Facebook posts, tributes full of joy and thankfulness to her mom and dad, grabbed my attention.  It’s not often we take the time to recognize and publicly thank our loved ones.  I’ve often wondered why we don’t share how thankful we are until it’s too late.

I believe my Mom knows how I feel and still, I don’t think I can express enough how grateful and thankful I am for her.

Thank you, Mom for….

Teaching me the joy of baking cakes, cookies and pies, including Amy’s Chocolate Cake!  Because of you I’ve spent many happy hours baking for my hungry kids.

Always showing up for school activities and supporting all my interests and endeavors, no matter how silly or crazy.

Driving me to doctor appointments and being my advocate to make sure I got the best medical care possible.

Accepting me for who I am.  For forgiving me when I was mean spirited or indifferent to your support.

Showing me how to love by your actions and words.   It’s always been clear to me that your love is constant, never wavering.  Hugs and affection have never been in short supply in your world.

Showing me how to be supportive.  Although I haven’t always known it, you’ve always been my biggest fan, encouraging me along the way.

Demonstrating a strong work ethic.   You exuded confidence in your professional life and I saw it and emulated it.  You showed me I could succeed if I worked hard and you were right.

Encouraging me to follow my dreams.  To this day, you encourage me to write, travel and pursue my interests.

Keeping our family connected.  This hasn’t always been an easy task with five kids and eight grandkids going in different directions.  Yet, you do it.  You take the time to let us know what’s going on with everyone.  You keep us connected.

Being strong in the face of adversity.  The more you’ve shared, the more I realize how much stuff you’ve been through in your life.   This strength is something I didn’t recognize or understand until I started a family.

Laughing.  For having a sense of humor and cracking jokes and smiling.  People, even strangers see you and know you’re an upbeat lady.  I admire you – a person who truly has never met a stranger.

Staying active even into your 80’s and committed to living a healthy life.  You serve as an example to everyone in our family.

Showing me how to plan for tomorrow, next month and five years from now.  You plan but emphasize we don’t have ultimate control because you know God is in charge and He can tweak your plans at any time.

Giving love another chance by marrying Garry.  After being married for 30 years to Dad, you could have said I’m done with married life.   You were open to love and companionship and because of that you’ve had 37+ years of wedded bliss.  Well, I’m sure it hasn’t all been bliss but you two make it look that way.

Living by example and showing me how to be a supportive and loving mom.  Is there a bigger gift?  I wouldn’t be the mom I am today without your influence.

Most of all, Mom, thank you for being my friend.